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June 11, 1991

It’s been 19 years. It was a Tuesday morning when I found out. I remember I was sleeping in my parents bed with my Dad. I can’t remember if my brother was there or not. I remember the phone ringing in the middle of the night. I think my Aunt Josephine called. My Dad was quick on the phone. I popped up ready for the news…the good news of course. She Died. That was it. Life was never the same.

Some men... they make it hard for the rest.

Today I was witness to some childish, ridiculous behavior. A friend of mine had been "talking" to a guy she "met" on Twitter. Now correct me if I'm wrong, talking is just that...talking. Talking to each other to find out if you have anything in common. Talking to see if you are compatible. Talking even as just friends. Now as far as I know, it was established they were just friends. He took her to lunch a few times, but he also stood her up a few times. Granted his excuses were plausible, they were nevertheless excuses. I'm not exactly sure how long this went on, but it couldn't have been more than two months. Well today she finally told him she only wanted to be friends. So instead of acting like a mature adult, what did he do? He attacked her via text and twitter. Instead of just saying, "You know I'm sorry thing's didn't work out, let's just be friends," he made fun of her appearance, her attitude, even her ethnicity. C'mon are you serious? Is that all you have? Wow what a winner ladies!! He's definitely a keeper. Then via twitter he talk's about her some more. Granted he didn't "name" her, he was pretty specific as to whom he was referring to. He made several off color comments that surprised even me. He even went so far as to say Laci deserved what Scott did to her (referring to Scott Peterson.) Wow! This guy must be joking. Nope, he was dead serious. Anger, hurt, resentfulness is no reason to lash out at someone for not being interested in them, and NO reason to make it public! You take it and move on. I mean seriously it wasn't even a relationship. At least she got rid of this loser now rather than later. Just think how much worse it could have been.

Wanted!

Wanted: A good man. A single, intelligent, funny, attractive, straight, strong, stable, trustworthy, nice man. Is this so hard to find???

What am I doing?!

Most people who know me will say that I am very spontaneous. I like to do things at the drop of a dime. I'm a get up and go kinda girl. I have always had the luxury of doing this. It's always been fun, but lately I've been finding my bright ideas aren't so bright anymore. I think quickly and act more quickly. I'm impulsive.

Road trip at 12 am? Sure thing, who's driving... oh me? Camping on the beach on a Tuesday... "I'll bring the s'mores!"

I never used to question anything I did. Now that I am getting older... I'm starting to think about things more. It seems like lately all I keep asking myself is "What am I doing?!"

The new Muse song 'Neutron Star Collision' (Love Is Forever)

This is the new Muse song that will be featured on the new twilight movie Eclipse.

♥ Paramore ♥

Last night I had the pleasure of finally seeing Paramore live! &heart; They were absolutely amazing! The concert was in Bakersfield so Erica (@lovekimk) and I drove down that day. Of course we listened to Paramore the entire way down to get us pumped for the show. We met her cousins there (who had been waiting hours before we got there) and cut into line with them. I know I know, yes we are line cutters. The tickets we had were for general admission which meant we were gonna be in the big giant mob on the floor. That was ok though...well ok if I was 6 ft tall. This is one of the only times when I consider myself vertically challenged. I couldn't see over the crowd very well, but at least I had my camera and caught most of it on film. Hearing Hayley sing live was awesome! She really has the best stage presence. They played all my favorite songs and of course I sang at the top of my lungs. This band is well worth seeing and I can't wait to see them again! If you'd like to see video of the show, check out my YouTube channel and enjoy!